Today I'd like to talk about one of the most spine tingling gruesome, heartstopping phobias known. We're talking real fear here folks. It’s called stage fright. I remember my first time going up alone on stage. I experienced all the normal cliches; sweaty palms, butterflies in the pit of my stomach, shaky knees and just an all out feeling of doom. All this occured during the hour long wait before hand. Then it was my turn. My name was announced. I felt my body float up to the stage and there I was in the spotlight. What was I doing here in front of all these people? Then I started strumming my guitar and realized with a sinking feeling that my mind had gone totally blank. Well after a few moments of stalling I suddenly remembered the title of the song and the rest was easy.
Even after many years of playing on a stage I still get these feelings. But now I use them to my advantage. Somehow the excitement gives my music more energy and an extra edge. Confidence in the song, knowing it frontwards, backwards and sideways will let me concentrate on the message I'm trying to get across instead of the delivery. When I'm up there feeling vulnerable I try to focus my attention on anything but myself; like that guy's hairdo or even that speck on the back wall. I like to pretend the audience is one person or my best friend who I'm playing for in my own living room. Anything to make myself feel comfortable.
I think the coffee house is the perfect place to work on your stage skills. You could start out playing at informal jam sessions until you're comfortable enough to try playing at an open stage. By then you will be among friends in a supportive relaxed atmosphere. I guess the single most important thing to remember is to be honest and genuine in your own unique way. It's your time to claim your place on this stage and give it all your best and that's the gift of yourself. Have fun.
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